Have you ever had an idea who is but choose to ignore it? You thought you were being to hard, too judgmental, to skeptical and non-understanding. So you went out of your way to ignore the signs. You even chalked your thoughts about the person up to your own insecurities, imagine that blaming yourself for someone else’s shitty behavior, chastising yourself for not being oblivious to it.

Sometimes we give so much of ourselves to people who are really unworthy. But when we do it’s important not to count it all for bad- there are lessons in everything.