One thing is clear: everyone has problems—not just you, not just me—everyone is going through something. The flames of the fire you’re in might feel intense, but remember, if other people’s lives are also in flames, how can they be blamed for not being there for you? Are you so selfish to think they are not burning too, praying for someone to rescue them? You couldn’t help them because you were dealing with the mess at your feet, and so were they, T23